This is the last post of the manifestation essential lessons series that starts with 7 Lessons on Manifesting Dreams and Manifesting Desires, continues whit Why Is It Still Not Here???? and ends with 8 Ways for Getting Ride Of the Attachment to Your Dreams.
When we are attached to our dreams, we don’t feel good because we keep looking around and try to figure out from where and when will come what we want. I’m sure it has already happened to you, and not just once, right? Maybe your goal was to find your ideal partner, change your career, heal yourself from cancer, earn money for bills, lose weight, or … you name it.
How strong were your desires? How much did you want them to come true?
To death, right? You had that burning desire to finally manifest what you wanted, it was (or still is) so huge that you started believing that it’s impossible to achieve it in that life.
| There is nothing wrong with burning desire! To desire something so much that it hurts if it’s not here with us, it’s Okay as well! Because when you want something with such high intensity, you know that you are in the right path to living your purpose – you know what you want, and this is the first step – KNOWING WHAT YOU WANT. |
So, you want(ed) it to death, visualize(d) it, practice(d) gratitude, do(did) positive affirmations… but nothing happens(ed). Nada. Niente. Nič (Slovene :) )
As you already know, nothing happens because most of people
| don’t detach themselves from their dreams and desires – they don't release the attachment to their dreams! |
Sometimes the attachment to the manifestation of our dreams is so intensive, that hurts and makes us feel uncomfortable, sensitive, depressed… you name it, all these because we think and believe that until our dreams don’t manifest, we won’t be happy.
Again, as repeated so many times, happiness is not a goal – don’t set happiness as a goal! This is the worst mistake you would take!!
| like attracts like – happiness attracts happiness – if you want to be happy in the future, you have to be happy in the present, right now when you are reading this post – be happy and grateful for that post because it gives you hope, motivation and techniques you can start applying right now in order to make your dreams come true. |
It’s true that when your dreams come true, the immense feelings of happiness, satisfaction and gratitude embrace every cell of your body, but this is not the happiness you were seeking when going after your dreams. This happiness is caused by the happiness you felt during the journey to the fulfillment of your dreams. As you can see, you have to be happy now – this is the only way to be happy in the future.
Always remember, you and only you decide how you will feel every moment, only you decide if people, situations, experiences, dreams, desires, goals… will have negative or positive impact on you. Only you!
If you are attached to the outcome, you act from the space of lack of what you want. The attachment gives you the sense that what you want is still not there. And you become worried and start doubting. This is the reason why are you getting even more of that – like attracts like.
| As soon as you get out of the vibration of lack, you free yourself. The non-presence of your dream in your physical reality doesn’t bother you. It doesn’t ruin your day, week, month, year… life. Because you know that it is going to happen. |
Here are some ways you can use when you need to detach yourself from the outcome.
1. What am I 1000% sure of? question
I have already explained that technique in the Why Is It Still Not There???? post. The reason why I’m mentioning it now is the gift I created for you. I’ve created 2 printables whit this question to keep reminding you what kind of questions create the life under your rules and which don’t, so I suggest you to put it on a visible place. Along with printables, I also created a What am I 1000% sure of? template where you can write down all the answers you are 1000% sure of. Use this files, they are my gifts to you. You have nothing to lose.
You can download the template and printables HERE.
2. Feeling vibrations of your dreams right here and right now
Everything is made of vibrations. Everything that you can see, hear, smell, taste, touch, and feel around you (people, things, experiences, situations, dreams, goals, desires…) is energy. Whole your life is manifested based on that vibrations. Take into account 2 things,
♥ everything we want, desire, dream of is made of vibrations of higher levels (love, happiness, gratitude, peace, sex, enlightenment…), and
♥ like attracts like.
| The equation is simple. You have to spend most of the time in the vibrations of the high levels in order to manifest your dreams. |
The challenge now is to find that vibrations of our dreams and spend most of the time on that vibrational level(s).
First, determine the emotions of your dreams. Ask yourself this question
| How will I feel when my dreams come true? |
Here I really, really, really suggest you to enroll in Lisa Nichols's Creative Visualization course HERE. She gives an excellent guidance during her visualization sessions because of her great ability to provoke emotions within you. This is essential! You have to feel strong emotions during the visualization in order to make your dreams reality. And she is extraordinary! I guarantee you that you will be touched and maybe even cry – if you won’t, your goal, dreams, desires are not big enough or you don’t truly, deep inside you, desire them. Her sessions are perfect to find out how it feels when you finally have what you always wanted to manifest in your life. When you do her visualizations, keep in mind the dreams you want to manifest right now. When Lisa Nichols guides you, keep in mind that you have already manifested this dream! Relax and let the feelings flow through your body. FEEL THEM. When you come out of the session, write down these emotions on the separate paper and put them somewhere you will see them daily – this will remind you of your dreams and keep you active in the manifestation process – only the persistent ones will win!
Now we have emotions, let get ourselves into that vibrational level during our days, especially when dark clouds arise.
Apart of blogging and creating positive affirmations workbooks and printable wisdom, I’m as well an inspiring student of acting :) Yeah, you might one day see me winning an Oscar :) :) :) However, there is one acting technique I would like to share with you. I think it can help you achieve the state of the emotion that attracts your dreams into your physical reality.
Let’s say that during the session with Lisa you felt strong emotion of gratitude.
Which sign do you equal to the gratitude? Sun, flower, money… What sign does pop up in your mind when you think about gratitude?
When you have that sign, mentally put it in the place where your heart is. Does it feel the same as it felt when visualizing? If not, put it in another part of your body – repeat the process again and again until you don’t find the right “home” in your body for the emotion of gratitude.
Do the same for any other emotion that raised during visualization. And not just for the emotions of your dreams, but use this technique to detect any negative emotion that is preventing you from achieving your dreams, emotions that don’t match vibrationally with your dreams. When you discover in which the part of the body that negative emotion is, put on this place the sign of the emotion that matches vibrationally with your dreams.
This can be your relief. This technique can detach you from your dreams by feeling them and knowing that they have already come true in another reality and that are on their way to your reality.
Here is something I want to talk you about. Our natural state is neutral, no positive emotions no negative emotions. I’ll go more deeply about that topic in future posts, but for now know that it is not correctly when you say for example: “I’m afraid.” You are not afraid because this is not your natural state. It is more accurately to say: “Fear is inside me.” Detect it, and put on its place any other emotion of higher levels.
| This is consciously deciding what emotions you want to feel. In every situation you can decide how you will feel, no matter how terrifying it might seem at first. |
| You have to decide for yourself how you will react! Only you! Appropriate or not, who cares, only high vibrations will bring you what you want. And vibrations don’t care if something is appropriate or not, the Universe don’t care either! And you, my dear friend, have to stop caring about other people’s opinion! If you admit it or not, they are weakening your manifestation ability! |
3. Let the Higher Power show you the solutions – the Universe, angels, God, fairies, dwarfs or whatever you name it or whoever you think can help you. When you know that you’ve done your best to manifest your dreams, let the higher powers to do their work, which is physical manifestation of your dreams. This can be you relief and alignment with your dreams. When you do that, when you truly release your dreams to the higher powers, when you let them choose when and a way to deliver your dreams, when you stop controlling what cannot be controlled, you signal the higher powers that you are vibrationally ready to receive your dreams in a physical form.
4. What is the worst thing that can happen to me? question
When we accept that the worst can happen as well, we stop resisting and fighting the worst scenario possible. We accepted it, and now we can turn the energy and focus to our dreams. This causes positive vibes and feelings to arise within us – and this vibrations align us with our dreams. What we are afraid of, makes us feel being stuck. And being stuck means we resist – because of that our dreams haven’t come true yet. Release your fears, and embrace the feelings of your dreams.
5. Use colourful language
Sometimes you can blow off some steam by using colorful language. Maybe it can give you that relief you need so desperately to align yourself with vibrations of your dreams.
6. Focus on something else
When we completely forget about our dreams and problems, and focus 120% on another thing, we forget about the first thing that caused us so many headaches. By doing that we release it, and now we are not resisting manifesting it.
7. Improve the relationship you have with yourself
Do you think that when your dreams, desires, targets… come true, you’ll be finally loved, accepted, seen, heard, suitable to certain society? If this is the case, you have to improve the relationship with yourself in order to let it go.
Whatever you think will bring you what you want, you have to give this to yourself firstly. When you give this to yourself, you won’t care anymore if you get this from someone else or not. It will come exactly when you don’t care anymore if you manifest your dreams or not.
8. Be present
When we are fully present in this precise moment, we are not stuck in the past and worried about the future. The only thing that one will always have is THIS MOMENT, this precise moment when you are reading this lines. And this moment will become part of your past after 10 seconds. Be present. Every moment be totally conscious what are you doing in that moment. If you are hanging clothes to dry them, think about the clothes you are hanging, be grateful for them, feel the material they are made of, and most importantly, reminds yourself that everything is made of vibrations, so are clothes as well. Have you ever asked yourself what emotions do clothes feel? What do they think about?
I know, you might be thinking, I’m going crazy, but think about it once again. Everything is made of vibrations, meaning that in the Universe we are all the same. There is no chair, Barbara, paella, car, lottery, child birth, career change… there are only vibrations of all these things and people and experiences. The Universe is the manager who organizes its database by matching people, things and experiences based on the vibrations that we, things and experiences transmit. And this database never runs out because it’s abundant meaning that everything you want, you can have!!! The Universe in limitless! We are those who think that if neighbor has it, we won’t get because it ran out of the stock. It’s all about perception.
Do you have another technique of letting it go? Please, I’ll be very happy to read your recipe in the comment section below, and others as well :)
Don’t forget to download my gift for you! You can access it HERE.
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