As parents, you have the best intentions for your children. But you’ve probably never learnt how to parent so you might be unconsciously projecting your limiting beliefs onto your children.
What if instead of constant conflicts with your children you had a harmonious and beautiful connection with them?
What if instead of telling or nagging your children they naturally came to their own empowered decisions?
And what if instead of projecting your own dreams for your children, you created the perfect environment for them to blossom into their most authentic selves?
The difference that separates the vast majority of parents today is simple:
They’ve learned to heal their own inner child first and to recognize that their child is an independent soul yearning to express his or her unique self.
As parents, all we ever want is the best for our children.
A better childhood. Better education. Better opportunities to prosper.
But even with your best intentions, there’s usually ONE child who gets neglected, and you may not even know it.
A child who longs for just as much love, care, protection, acknowledgment and connection as the children standing in front of you.
That child is you. Your inner child.
What you may not realize is that the way you raise your children is often a direct reflection of your own unmet childhood needs.
And as long as those unmet needs are not healed, you may be unconsciously projecting them onto your children – causing them to inherit the same fears, doubts and insecurities you once had as a child.
Take a moment to think of all the hang-ups and limiting beliefs you picked up from your childhood that YOU had to untangle and heal throughout your life.
The thing is, it’s not your parents’ fault.
It’s simply the unconscious conditioning outside of their control that they were subjected to when you were growing up.
But that does NOT mean we need to pass these limiting beliefs on to our kids.
We can break the chain and free our kids to be their most authentic and actualized selves – without the struggle most people have to go through as they grow up.
Isn’t that ultimately what we want for our children? For them to be confident to express themselves as their truest selves?
So if you truly want to raise your children to grow into their most resilient, fulfilled, courageous and authentic version of themselves, you first need to parent yourself. This is the heart of what it means to be a conscious parent.
This radically new approach of parenting has really caught fire, with tens of thousands of parents around the world choosing to bring more consciousness in how they raise their children.
This new paradigm of conscious parenting is so, so powerful because it begins with first healing and nurturing your own inner child.
And when you do, you’ll show up as a whole, fully awakened parent for your children and be able to provide them with the right internal AND external environment for them to truly flourish.